What is the proper wedding gift amount for a Seoul wedding?

[Michael42]

Safety should always be a priority when traveling, especially when you're in unfamiliar places. I always register with my country's embassy, avoid displaying expensive items, and research local scams before I go.

What travel safety tips do you consider essential? I'm particularly interested in advice for solo travelers, but all tips are welcome. How do you balance staying safe with still having authentic experiences? I think this is an important part of any travel planning guide.

[William80]

I’ve been invited to a wedding in Seoul, and I’m not sure what the expectation is for the monetary gift. I’ve heard the amount should be specific and presented in the right envelope, but I’m worried about accidentally giving an inappropriate sum or breaking a custom I don’t understand.

[Kevin_L]

In Seoul the usual move is to give 축의금 in a plain white envelope, and the amount should be in 10 000 won increments. For acquaintances you’ll typically see 30 000 to 50 000 won, for closer friends or coworkers 50 000 to 100 000 won. I once handed 50 000 won in a simple envelope and the couple thanked me warmly.

[Anthony.P]

I’ve done it a couple times and learned not to overspecify the number. One wedding I chose 60 000 won because I thought it was polite, another time I gave 30 000 and the vibe was fine too. The couple’s reaction didn’t hinge on the exact sum.

[Paisley.L]

I used to sweat the math the most when the invitation didn’t say who’s family or where I stand. The envelope felt heavy and I worried about the “right” amount. Turns out a sincere note matters more than a math problem.

[Noah_R]

Is the money really the main thing here, or is showing up and being part of the celebration what matters most? Sometimes I feel the pressure is not about the sum but about your presence?

[SamuelH]

I once forgot the envelope on the kitchen counter and had to grab a spare from the hotel front desk. It worked, but I felt silly.

[SofiaOB]

If you’re unsure, a quick call to the couple or their family member can save you a lot of guessing. Ask politely, and they’ll let you know if there’s a preferred range.

[Edward_L]

On a trip to Seoul I noticed people had a little ceremony at the table where the money is handed over; it felt solemn, so I aimed for a quiet, respectful handover rather than a dramatic gesture.