What should I do about Lunar New Year gift etiquette from a neighbor?

[JosephHH]

I’m trying to figure out how to properly respond when my neighbor gives me a small gift for Lunar New Year, but I’m not from a culture that celebrates it. I don’t want to seem rude by just saying thanks, but I also don’t know if I should give something back right away or if that would mess up the gesture.

[NatalieUW]

That happens around Lunar New Year I say thank you with a warm smile and a quick note that I value the gesture. I keep it simple and not heavy about expectations. If I want to reciprocate I usually do it later with a small treat or a polite gesture not the same day.

[Grace20]

I tried a tiny return later by bringing over a plate of cookies with a short note. It felt awkward at first but people were fine with it and kept the exchange casual rather than transactional.

[SophiaH]

Maybe the real issue is that I overthink the gesture and worry about being polite in a way that misreads their intent. Is the problem really me overthinking it?

[Natalie.L]

I find that a simple gesture and a small thank you can be enough, and I try not to read too much into it. Sometimes I feel like I should offer something back right away but I skip it and just enjoy the moment.