What to do when someone ignores my follow-up in a group chat?
#1
I’ve noticed that when I’m in a group chat, one person will often reply directly to something I said, but then completely ignore my follow-up question to them. It makes me wonder if I’m coming on too strong or if the conversation just moved too fast for them.
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#2
Yeah I’ve seen that too. They answer the first bit and the follow-up just slips away. It makes you wonder if you came on too strong or if the thread moves too fast for them.
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#3
I’ve tried rewording the follow-up and nudging them again after a bit, but most of the time it just sits there and I end up dropping it. It’s awkward to chase.
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#4
Sometimes I think the real limiter is the chat rhythm, not me. In big groups people skim for the punchy line and then drift. I still try to ask clearly though, even if it feels clunky.
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#5
Do you think the problem is the question or the group vibe?
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